Provincial Officers Mess 19th March 2026: An Observer’s Report

Provincial Officers Mess 19th March 2026: An Observer’s Report

I don’t know how they do it, but nearly every Provincial Officers’ Mess Meeting seems to be held in glorious weather. Maybe we should hold them as barbecues outdoors. “More onions on your sausage, Sir?”

The Provincial Officers’ Mess is for all Freemasons in East Kent Province who hold the rank of a Provincial Grand Officer. You pay a small annual subscription to belong, and can attend the twice-yearly Mess Meetings, where you pay for lunch and listen to talks on masonic topics of current interest. The Provincial Grand Master/Grand Superintendent is the President. The Provincial Grand Treasurer and Grand Secretary are usually elected accordingly. It is all very jolly and very informal.

Bright as a button, I breezed into the Maidstone Masonic Centre at about 1215 on Thursday 19th March. The car park was filling up nicely, and the bar was doing a decent trade. First stop for me was to sign in. On duty were Arthur Pybus, Chris Crabb and Bob Hadlow, under the watchful eye of Organiser-in-Chief Andrew Berry (L-R, pictured). How many would be attending, I asked Arthur. A hundred and forty-one, plus a few who had forgotten to book and were hoping they could be squeezed in. Andrew told me that some of those attending were not yet Provincial Officers, but the Provincial Grand Master had offered them a Rank, which they had of course accepted, and were to be appointed at the Provincial Grand Festival the following month.

Lunch was to be at 1300, so there was plenty of time to circulate, meet old friends and catch up on the gossip. Reporter’s notebook and camera at the ready, I mixed and noted.

Paul O’Neill, Provincial Grand Mentor, told me he was going to make a presentation at lunch and it would be nice if I could film it.

I congratulated Nigel Fitz, Provincial Grand Almoner, on his forthcoming promotion to Assistant Provincial Grand Master.

I also caught up with Roy Brooks (seen here on the left, talking to Dale Abercrombie). Roy would be taking over from Nigel in April. “I am delighted and truly honoured to have been asked to be the Provincial Grand Almoner,” he said to me. “This is a responsibility that I know will bring its challenges, but I’m very much looking forward to the opportunity. I am especially keen to work alongside the Lodge and Chapter Almoners, make new friendships, and play a part in improving the lives of our members and the wider communities we serve.”

Being good lads, we all drifted into the Dining Room in good time, and at bang on 1300 hrs, led by Director of Ceremonies Graham Cuthbert, in walked our President, Neil Hamilton Johnstone, accompanied by Deputy President Phil South and the rest of Top Table. Graeme Wyles, Third Provincial Grand Principal, led Grace, and we then sat down to lunch of Vegetable Soup, Roast Lamb (or vegetarian alternative), Profiteroles, Cheese & Biscuits and Coffee.

At 1428 hrs, following Return Grace, our President proposed the Loyal Toasts to the King and to the Grand Master/Grand Superintendent. Just a little business at first: apologies, then submission of the Mess Accounts, which were accepted nem con.

Now it was time for two addresses. We used to regard the Province’s Library and Museum, said our President, as “a nice-to-have”; but it was much more than that. It was Freemasonry without barriers. It was held in high regard and was a veritable gateway into Freemasonry for the public. And who better to talk about it than the man in charge, former APGM Richard Wingett?

 

The Provincial Museum, said Richard, was opened on the 24th June 1933. The Premier Grand Lodge was formed on the 24th June 1717. The Canterbury Masonic Centre was established in the 1880s, also on the 24th June. And the significance of that date? It was the Feast of St John the Baptist, the Patron of Medieval Stonemasons. Did we all know that? Er – yes. (No – actually, I suspect most of us didn’t!)

Richard told us that the then PGM of Kent, the Lord Cornwallis, was the driver behind the creation of the Museum. Over the decades it had become a virtual shop window for Freemasonry, revealing its importance in the community and its embracing of all cultures and backgrounds. It was now very much on the English Tourist Trail, with up to 600 people visiting in a single day last year – the day of the Canterbury Medieval Pageant. Currently it had an Exhibition about the Royal Arch (Chapter). It was not just a museum but a source of History. It was well supported by local businesses and had the prestigious Arts Council England Accreditation. It was also establishing bursaries for various organisations including grants for scout uniforms and to the History Department at the University of Kent.

The Museum and Library had an extensive collection of artefacts and books, some books going back to the fifteenth century – and a gavel that was thousands of years old. A 1744 explanatory book of the Bible contained much that is found in Masonic Ritual today for both Craft and Chapter.

Richard reminded us that the Museum and Library couldn’t do what it did without its “fantastic bunch of volunteers” and was always looking for new recruits and financial support. An application form could be found on our tables …

Thanking Richard for his address, our President affirmed that the Museum and Library were indeed an essential part of our Province, and he encouraged us all to visit and enjoy the experience.

A quick update on our 2025 Festival: to warm applause, he told us that final figures showed that we had collectively raised more than £3.75 million.

On then, at 1453 hrs, to the second address. Up to the microphone strode Peter Rodd, a former APGM and Chair of the Trustees of the CEKFC – Cornwallis East Kent Freemasons’ Charity. Peter reminded us that the CEKFC was OUR Charity. It was now match-funding in record numbers and would continue to do so. In the current year CEKFC would match fund up to £10,000 for each Area in support of a single project undertaken by Lodges and Chapters in that Area. In addition, it would match-fund at the rate of £250 per year for three years to any Lodge or Chapter supporting a youth group such as Scouting.

Peter also requested Lodges and Chapters to support CEKFC by donating the proceeds of one raffle or collection each year, perhaps the Installation or Christmas meeting, to enable CEKFC to continue its work.

And what better moment for Mo Morris, Charity Steward of Allington Lodge No.7086, to walk up to Peter and present a cheque for £1,000 from the Lodge to the CEKFC? Received with thanks by Peter, to warm applause from all of us.

Peter then presented a four-minute video showcasing the work of the CEKFC and the tributes paid to it by some of its many recipients. He reminded us that the annual CEKFC Presentation Event would be held at the University of Kent on Saturday 7th November. https://cornwallisekfc.org.uk/

1504 hrs. Time for a couple more items. The President drew our attention to the Centenary Hall Stone Appeal, announced as recently as the previous week, in which the United Grand Lodge of England wished to raise £100 million over ten years to assist the fraternity in day-to-day operations and in maintaining and restoring buildings of architectural significance. Our Province was now starting to plan accordingly, and he urged us to familiarise ourselves with the announcement.

Finally, as promised, Provincial Grand Mentor (Craft) Paul O’Neill popped up and was delighted to present a Certificate and lapel pin to his oppo in Chapter, Peter Bearman, for completing his Solomon Diploma. Thunderous applause all around.

Nearly time to go. Provincial Junior Grand Warden David Mantle made us laugh as he offered praise and best wishes to our President. Neil thanked us all for attending, reminded us that the next Meeting would be on Thursday 15th October, and wished us a safe journey home. We then rose as he and his top team retired from the dining room.

Now the Maidstone Masonic Centre is a lovely place for a meeting and has a big car park. Unfortunately, our Mess Meetings often end just as the school run is taking place. I find that it’s better to hang around for a while until the main rush is over. My “chauffeur” Stuart Skilton and I had been remarking on the professionalism and very high standards of the catering staff at Thyme 2 Dine – so we decided it would be nice to thank them again and see if they would gather for a group pic. And here they are!

Back row [L-R]: Sharon (Manager), Kate, Becky, Delia, Dara, Heather, Heike, Ria, Julia, Dawn, Cameron. Front Row [L-R]: Debs, Sue

 

Text: John Ray

Photos: Paul Goodwin, John Ray

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Dark Blues Storm to Victory for the David Graeme Cup

Dark Blues Storm to Victory for the David Graeme Cup

David Graeme Trophy – Upchurch River Valley Golf Club

The East Kent Masonic Golf Association’s season came to a fitting close with the traditional Battle of the Aprons, as members competed for the prestigious David Graham Cup.

Now in its sixth year, this much-anticipated event saw the Dark Blues looking to recapture the glory of their inaugural win back in 2020. The competition was held at Upchurch Valley Golf Club, where players were welcomed with a hearty breakfast before heading out for the final round of the season.

Captain Roy Butler led a strong Dark Blue team of 20 members, while Paul Ames captained the Light Blues, who fielded 9 players. They were joined by five guests and visitors, adding to the camaraderie and spirit of the day.

The main event followed an individual Stableford format, with the David Graham Cup awarded based on each team’s average Stableford score. To further encourage teamwork and fun, there was also a “Yellow Ball” challenge, in which each group rotated a yellow ball and competed for the best group score.

The association was honoured to welcome David Graham himself—former Assistant Provincial Grand Master and past Provincial Grand Secretary—who spent the day walking the course, chatting with players, and offering words of encouragement.

When the scores were tallied, it was the Dark Blues who emerged triumphant, amassing 619 Stableford points—an average of 32.58 per player. The Light Blues put up a valiant effort, finishing with 252 points (an average of 28 per player). Our guests, who were not eligible for the main trophy, impressed with an excellent average of 35.33 points per player.

In the individual competition, Steve Allen (Richard Watts Lodge) took top honours with an impressive 41 points. Captain Roy Butler (Maeides Stanna Lodge) secured second place with 39 points, while guest Chris Hill claimed third.

The Yellow Ball Competition was dominated by the Richard Watts Lodge quartet of Ash Lawrence, Dave Woodward, Steve Allen, and Tony Culver, who stormed to victory with 84 points.

Finally, the tongue-in-cheek prize for the “Best Value Day” went to Nick Alder, narrowly missing out on first place to Philip Hughes.

There was a collection for the captains charity which thanks to the generosity of the members meant the final balance for the year was a huge £3,340.28 for Five Acre Wood School.

It was a superb day of fellowship, competition, and sportsmanship—exactly the spirit the East Kent Masonic Golf Association aims to uphold. Congratulations once again to the Dark Blues on their well-earned victory!

Full Results – Click Here

 

East Kent Masonic Golf Fixtures 2026

(Provisional List)

Friday 10th April 2026
West Kent V East Kent
Cherry Lodge Golf Club (Inc AGM)

Thursday 14th May 2026
Met GL V EKMGA
Warley Park – Brentwood

Friday 29th May 2026
Tenterden Golf Club (TBC)

Thursday 26th June 2026
Surrey Masonic Sports V EKMGA
Crohum Hurst Golf Club

Friday 24th July 2026
Geoffrey Gordon Dearing Bowl
Kings Hill Golf Club (TBC)

Friday 28th August 2026
William Blay
Faversham Golf Club (TBC)

Thursday 17th September 2026
Beauchamp Interprovincial Trophy
Surrey Downs Golf Club

Friday 25th September 2026
Sheerness Golf Club (TBC)

Friday 23rd October 2026
Light Blues V Dark Blues – David Graeme Cup
Etchinghill Golf Club (TBC)

Provincial Officers Mess: An Observer’s Report

Provincial Officers Mess: An Observer’s Report

The Provincial Officers Mess October 2025

Picture of Richard Dixy, a visiting volunteer standing next to the MCF banner

What does it take to make a successful meeting?

John Ray writes:

How about a touch of the Cymbolick Penalties (yes – I can spell their name correctly!), a very good speaker, a splendid lunch with impeccable service and lots of friends, old and new?

The Provincial Officers’ Mess is for all Freemasons in East Kent Province who hold the rank of a Provincial Grand Officer. You pay a small annual subscription to belong, and can attend the twice-yearly Mess Meetings, where you pay for lunch and listen to talks on masonic topics of current interest. The Provincial Grand Master/Grand Superintendent is the President. The Provincial Grand Treasurer and Grand Secretary are usually elected accordingly.

So – how did it go?

I turned up at the Maidstone Masonic Centre on Thursday 16th October 2025 at about 1220 hrs, and already the large car park was fairly full. My first port of call was to sign in. How many people were expected? One hundred and fourteen, I was told. The Dining Room was neatly laid out with round tables and silver service the order of the day. I noted a large projector screen. There were no reserved seats, apart from at the Top Table. I soon met a couple of old friends, who told me that they would be on Table 2 and suggested that I place my “ticket” at a seat adjacent to them.

Now to do a spot of circulating. I bumped into Ralph Craig of Norman Chapter No.3502. He was wearing an interesting tie. “It’s one of the original Mess ties,” he explained. Hmm, I thought. I must see how many others I can spot.

Ralph Craig, Mark Treadwell and Geoff Smith, all suitably “attired”

Andrew Notley, former Assistant Provincial Grand Master, told me he would be announcing something interesting under Any Other Business – but wouldn’t say more. How intriguing! David Graeme, our former Provincial Grand Secretary and outgoing Mess Secretary, was, he told me, “Living the dream”. He said the same to me some years ago when I was escorting him to a Lodge Installation Meeting. It must be true, then.

Graham Cuthbert

At 1255 hrs we were called to order by Provincial Grand Director of Ceremonies Graham Cuthbert (pictured) as Provincial Grand Master Neil Hamilton Johnstone, Deputy PGM Neil South and Assistant PGM Wayne Smith entered the Dining Room.

Graham Wyles, Third Provincial Grand Principal, led Grace, after which we settled down for lunch: Minestrone Soup, Chicken Wrapped in Bacon (or vegetarian option), Gypsy Tart, Cheese & Biscuits, Coffee and Mint.

Seated on my left was Peter Funnell of Belvidere Chapter No.503. Running Joke alert: “Too cold for my athletics shorts”, he averred. Thank goodness for that!

Graham Cuthbert pictured. 

 

On my right was Philip Lumley of Renham Lodge No.8211. Philip was helping on the financial side with the 2025 Festival Celebration, to be held at the Leas Cliff Hall, Folkestone, on the 29th November, which some 400 people were expected to attend.

Philip Lumley

During our meal our President took wine with us all, then with his Vice-President, his Secretary and Treasurer and his Guest Speaker, APGM Wayne Smith. At 1426 we gave Toasts to The Craft and Royal Arch Masonry and to the Grand Master, HRH The Duke of Kent.

Following the after-dinner Grace, the President dealt with Apologies from those absent and proceeded to the Election of the Mess Treasurer John Fox and the Mess Secretary Colin Tunbridge. The President gave “huge thanks” to both retirees, William Daniels and David Graeme. Regarding David Graeme, it was with a mixture of sadness and happiness: “David Graeme would be very sad, but on the other hand the rest of us… “ Our President’s voice tailed off amid much mirth and laughter.

Enjoying the meal

Moving on, the President reminded us that there was a lot of public misunderstanding “of who we are and what we are about”. We were now concentrating our efforts on “trying to increase our engagement” with the public. People knew very little about who we were and what we did. Accordingly, he had requested a meeting with the Grand Master, at which he had said he was determined to find out “What is the big picture within the Province?” The Grand Master therefore allowed the appointment of a fifth Assistant Provincial Grand Master, whose remit would be to tackle the question and concentrate on the important issue of Community Engagement. Wayne Smith was our new Assistant Provincial Grand Master and was already making considerable progress on the matter.

APGM Wayne Smith

Wayne Smith then took to the microphone and introduced his subject under the title of the Third Pillar in Freemasonry. Our members, he said, were proudest about what they were achieving. They excelled in “small, notable acts of service that resonate well with the community”.
Phil Lumley gave an example: a local school was celebrating its 150th anniversary and wanted to restore the school’s bell tower. Pupils and parents alike applauded the work that the Stanley Wykeham Lodge No.6599 put in to help them do so.
Wayne pointed out that many Masonic Centres were not in the best state for hosting community events, therefore money was being made available in the Heritage Building Fund for such work to be carried out.

Jeremy Parkin, Provincial Grand Superintendent of Works, echoed what Wayne had said. Masonic Centres needed to have maintenance plans and adequate insurance. Our Centres were tremendous assets and were often being underutilised.

Our Area Groups were pitching in with their own ideas and initiatives. Group 8’s John Matthews maintained a diary of community-involved events. Other Groups were actively involved in following the Armed Forces Covenant. Our aim now, said Wayne, was to “lift the words off the page” and to fulfil our pledges under the Covenant more actively. One example of doing so was the opening up of our annual PSA Testing service to veterans. A member of the Royal British Legion had attended our session last May and had been given a red-card result.

Tony Read of the Per Mare Per Terram Lodge No.3609 explained how the Lodge had adopted the Chatham Marine Cadets and was participating with them in the monthly “turning of the pages” at Rochester Cathedral in memory of fallen Marines.

Wayne concluded by saying we should be using the skills of our Lodge and Chapter members to assist wherever possible, including offering work experience.

Gravesend Sikh Temple

Thanking Wayne for his presentation, the President remarked that the fraternity was underrepresented by many faiths other than Christianity, and he was especially looking forward to his upcoming visit to the Gurdwara Sikh Temple (pictured) at Gravesend.

At 1506 hrs it was time for Any Other Business. Up stood Andy Notley to announce that the Cymbolick Penalties’ latest CD had resulted in an £18,200 donation to the Province’s 2025 Festival. He thanked all those Brethren and Companions who had given their support. Applause all round.

Our President reminded us of the Building Together seminars, the next one being held at the Maidstone Masonic Centre on the 25th October 2025. This was very much a “three-line whip” affair.

Our next Mess Meeting would be on the 19th March 2026. “In case I don’t see you beforehand, may I wish you all a Happy Christmas?”

Provincial Senior Grand Warden Julian Friel thanked the President for his continued hard work and support and congratulated him and Margaret on their imminent fifty-fifth wedding anniversary.
And with that we all rose as the members of the Top Table retired. 1515 hrs.

I always find these Mess Lunches interesting because we receive useful updates on Provincial thinking from the top people themselves. It was also lovely, of course, to meet our friends and catch up with all the gossip.

Good food great friends

One final thought that always occurs to me: how smoothly the catering arrangements run at the Maidstone Masonic Centre. It’s hardly an exaggeration to say that we do not notice them: a sure sign of true professionalism. I’d like therefore to record my thanks, and those of everyone else I’m sure, to Sharon Smith of Thyme 2 Dine and her team: kitchen staff Heike Wheat, Kate Banks and Becky Kember, and serving staff Sue Taylor, Suzanne Frame, Dawn Clark, Jan Lingham, Dada Adams, Deb Hawkes, Nicki Severn and Julia Williams.

John Ray

[Photos: Paul Goodwin and John Ray]

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The Third Pillar in Action: Community Engagement in East Kent

The Third Pillar in Action: Community Engagement in East Kent

The Third Pillar in Action: Community Engagement in East Kent

The Third Pillar in Action: Community Engagement in East Kent

By Mark Costelloe

Rubie on her 16th Birthday

When the United Grand Lodge of England published its 2022 and Beyond strategy, three central pillars were set out to guide the future of the Craft: Membership, Communication, and Community Engagement. Of these, it is the third pillar—community engagement—that remains both the most challenging and the most rewarding.

Freemasonry has long been recognised for its ability to raise significant sums for charitable causes. Yet, while financial generosity is commendable, it is not sufficient on its own to change public perception. If we are to demonstrate our value as an integral part of society, we must also be visible within our local communities, contributing time, skills, and fellowship alongside financial assistance. This requires a conscious shift in mindset within our Lodges and Chapters—one that places active participation at the forefront of our charitable endeavours.

Fleur de Lis Lodge No. 8969: A Case Study

An excellent example of this principle in action can be found at Fleur de Lis Lodge No. 8969. Consecrated in 1981 as a Scouting Lodge, Fleur de Lis has always maintained strong connections with youth organisations, while today welcoming members from all walks of life. Its founding principles, rooted in service and support for young people, remain firmly intact.

In September 2024, the Lodge became aware of an appeal posted by Tovil Scouts, based near the Maidstone Masonic Centre. The group sought help in refurbishing their sensory garden, which had sadly fallen into disrepair. For many of the young people involved, including those with additional physical or mental needs, the garden represented a vital space for reflection and support.

It was immediately apparent that this was an opportunity for the Lodge not only to provide financial assistance, but to embody the third pillar of the UGLE strategy by working in partnership with the community.

Bob presenting the cheque to Rubies mum, Kim
Children and Parents enjoying the day
Building taking place

From Fundraising to Partnership

Initial discussions with Scout leaders confirmed the scale of the project, and Fleur de Lis Lodge pledged to raise funds during 2025. Familiar initiatives—raffles, quiz nights, golf days, and Sunday lunches—were quickly organised, and further support was generously provided by Robinson Mark Lodge No. 255.

The Lodge also sought to involve families and friends. At the traditional Christmas carvery and carol evening, two Scout leaders were invited to speak about the sensory garden, explaining its purpose and importance. The presentation was warmly received and offered a clear illustration of how Freemasonry can work hand in hand with the wider community.

As plans developed, it became evident that further funding would be required. With the guidance of Provincial Grand Charity Steward W. Bro. Colin Barden, an application was made to the Masonic Charitable Foundation. A grant of £6,000 was subsequently awarded, allowing the Lodge to advance the project while continuing to support other charitable commitments, including the 2025 Festival.

Further assistance came from a local contractor, Steadline, who generously offered to undertake the more complex construction work at reduced rates.

Rubie after the Cardiac Arrest, with her mum Kim
Rubie

Labour and Fellowship

In August 2025, as the Scouting year drew to a close, work began. Over two weekends, members of Fleur de Lis Lodge, equipped with shovels, wheelbarrows, and secateurs, joined contractors and local volunteers to restore the sensory garden.

Here, the essence of the third pillar was clearly demonstrated: Freemasons not only fundraising, but actively giving of their time and labour, working in unison with others to deliver a tangible benefit to the community.

The results speak for themselves. The garden now provides once more a safe, peaceful, and supportive environment for the Scouts. For the members of Fleur de Lis Lodge, the project has fostered a deep sense of pride and accomplishment, while also strengthening bonds both within the Lodge and with the wider community.

 

A Lasting Legacy

To acknowledge the Lodge’s efforts, Tovil Scouts plan to host a barbecue for all who contributed. More importantly, a long-term relationship has now been established—one that will bring continuing benefits for both the Scouts and the Lodge.

This initiative illustrates how community engagement can transform perception and deepen connections. It highlights the vital importance of Freemasonry being seen not only as a charitable donor but as an active partner within society.

Leading by Example

The Fleur de Lis project serves as a model for other Lodges and Chapters across East Kent. By engaging directly with their local communities, Freemasons can demonstrate the relevance and value of the Craft in the modern world.

As we reflect on the UGLE strategy, it is clear that the third pillar is more than an aspiration—it is a practical guide for action. By sharing such examples, we encourage others to follow suit, ensuring that Freemasonry continues to build stronger relationships, foster goodwill, and leave a lasting legacy within the communities we serve.

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Macmillan Coffee Morning at the Masonic Hall Raises Over £350

Macmillan Coffee Morning at the Masonic Hall Raises Over £350

Macmillan Coffee Morning at the Masonic Hall Raises Over £350

Helping out with the cakes
Enjoying the coffee and company

Macmillan Coffee Morning at the Masonic Hall Raises Over £350

The Masonic Hall at Ashford opened its doors to host a Macmillan Coffee Morning in support of Macmillan Cancer Support.

Members, families, and friends gathered to enjoy fresh (really good) coffee, homemade cakes, and good company, all in aid of a really worthy cause.

Thanks to the generosity of those who attended, more than £350 was raised. The funds will go directly to Macmillan, helping them continue their vital work supporting people living with cancer.

The event was a warm reminder of the importance of fellowship and supporting the community. My sincere thanks go to everyone who came along to share a cup of coffee and support the event.

Bro Griff Bromfield-Jenkins

 

Macmillan Cancer Research

What does Macmillan Cancer Support do?

Macmillan has spent more than 100 years helping people living with cancer. From the moment someone is diagnosed with cancer, we’re there with all the information, support and guidance they need, to help everyone with cancer live life as fully as they can.

How we help people

We know that cancer can disrupt your whole life, and affects everyone differently. Cancer impacts more than your physical health, it can impact relationships, jobs, finances, emotional wellbeing and so much more. It can be made worse simply because of who you are and where you live.

details from https://www.macmillan.org.uk/about-us/what-we-do

 

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